12: It is better to die of hunger, than to live rich with troubled mind.
If you want to get better, give up thinking like this: “If I don’t take care of business, I won’t make a living.” “If I don’t reprimand my employee, he’ll be useless.” Because it’s better to starve while free from grief and fear than to live with abundance but be disturbed. Better your employee should be bad than you should be unhappy.
Start small. There’s minor breakage, or petty theft of paper clips? Say to yourself: “This is the price of not being disturbed, the price of tranquillity.” There’s no free lunch. So when you summon your subordinate, remember that he may not come, and if he does he still may not do what you want. But he’s not so powerful that your peace of mind depends on him.
disturbed=troubled mind
Translated by GPT from Greek:
In Ancient Greek
εἰ προκόψαι θέλεις, ἄφες τοὺς τοιούτους ἐπιλογισμούς. ‘ἐὰν ἀμελήσω τᾶν ἐμῶν, οὐχ ἕξω διατροφάς:’ ‘ἐὰν μὴ κολάσω τὸν παῖδα, πονηρὸς ἔσται.’ κρεῖσσον γὰρ λιμῷ ἀποθανεῖν ἄλυπον καὶ ἄφοβον γενόμενον ἢ ζῆν ἐν ἀφθόνοις ταρασσόμενον. κρεῖττον δὲ τὸν παῖδα κακὸν εἶναι ἢ σὲ κακοδαίμονα. [2] ἄρξαι τοιγαροῦν ἀπὸ τῶν σμικρῶν. ἐκχεῖται τὸ ἐλάδιον, κλέπτεται τὸ οἰνάριον: ἐπίλεγε ὅτι ‘τοσούτου πωλεῖται ἀπάθεια, τοσούτου ἀταραξία:’ προῖκα δὲ οὐδὲν περιγίνεται. ὅταν δὲ καλῇς τὸν παῖδα, ἐνθυμοῦ, ὅτι δύναται μὴ ὑπακοῦσαι καὶ ὑπακούσας μηδὲν ποιῆσαι ὧν θέλεις: ἀλλ᾽ οὐχ οὕτως ἐστὶν αὐτῷ καλῶς, ἵνα ἐπ᾽ ἐκείνῳ ᾖ τὸ σὲ μὴ ταραχθῆναι.
If you want to improve, leave such thoughts behind. 'If I neglect my duties, I will not have sustenance:' 'If I do not punish my child, he will be wicked.' It is better to die from hunger without grief and fear than to live in abundance and be disturbed. It is better for the child to be bad than for you to be miserable.
[2] Start therefore with the small things. The oil spills, the wine is stolen; remind yourself that 'this is the price of peace of mind, this is the price of tranquility:' nothing extra comes from this. But when you call your child, keep in mind that he may not obey, and even if he does obey, he might not do what you want: but it is not good for him to be so, that you should not be disturbed because of it.
Related
"To be indifferent to what makes no difference." - Marcus-Aurelius
To be indifferent to what makes no difference while stepping up to fulfill the duties of the relationships you currently have with society and family (Justice (Virtue)).
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